Every intended spouse(s) are clearly coming out of one marriage from where they were produced, raised catered for; or been previously married into to be in another other which will also produce others. Who would later in the nearest future proceed into another marital or spousal relativity?. By these, the world was enlivened to exist as an unbroken continuum. The first five Pre-marital flaws (Part one)The first five Pre-marital flaws (Part one)Pre-marital flaws are initially not entirely flaws but signs through which ones should have taken to some certain cautions. But it gradually later on in life becomes flaws when veils of deception had been wrung and shaken to expose what was hidden. Remember, love could be found anywhere but it does not always present itself as love. Therefore, nothing should be hidden from love whenever and wherever love is birthed.
If these guiding signs were never yielded to. Whenever realities are espoused, these signs become flaws. Which they were initially never intended to be. Then, you’ll see clearly and know better and wish you had done things differently.
Most of these signs were fully deposited within our five primary sense organs. Eyes; Nose; Ear; Skin and Tongue.
i. Eyes: Gen 2:22-25 “ Adam hastily concluded on the woman presented and shown to him as he never considered consulting God the creator on what and how living with this new creature (the woman) would be. Because he had never seen one all his life.
He recognized the missing ribs but never bordered on why it should be in another body as a sensor through which he recognized what he needed. It was just like taking delivery of an entirely new product without the product’s manual. Although, a woman is never to be guided or operated as a product.
Because all women are daughters of God; not humanly company-made products.
Adam presumed since he understood to a certain level all the other living things in the garden. As he was made to name; and be lord over them. He hurriedly concluded that the last and latest living being presented to him should also be treated likewise. Except with a difference of always having her around him.
He was not totally wrong, but he should’ve consulted with his maker concerning what happened while he was made to fall asleep but he didn’t. The signs to ask were already made available within his senses. But he never deemed it fit to ask for guidance. He presumed the already given rules should command all. Therefore, the unyielded signs became flaws.
He eschew eschatology and the signs he should’ve observed and duly followed. While he was yet to understand. The external forces crept in after beating the commandment signs into submission. They become a flaw through which the presence of his maker he can no longer behold.
The presentation of the first woman by God to the first man was a sign of unity, the symbol of love, an epitome of oneness, and a renewed creation of forever harmony. But the man could not adequately key into these. Why?! He acted less; asked not and deplored less of his five senses not on signs that should lead him to continue in the wake of his maker. And these led to his ultimate marital flaws.
It’s a marital flaw to judge him/her by what you could see and thereby totally appraised or rescind such to condemnation; without an expression of views from the other party. As he/she may be; or may not be the best you need, to attain the better you have always craved to be.
Note: 75% of whatever destabilized a marriage are signs that has always been there even before the union. Failure to work on it to total tame would eventual pull the union apart.
Pst. Folorunsho Alayo
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