Your MOTHER is your first Heaven and Resuscitation

This gospel is an unending eulogy to that woman who has done so much for you. Your Mother, My mother, our Mothers. That woman who should mean the whole world to you. I mean; Your mother. Your first heaven and resuscitation. She is your first Mentor, Your First Nurse, Your first Teacher, Your First Musician and your all in all best friend; that’s your mother. The clay out of which your pots was fashioned.

Haven’t you noticed how well and much you’ve extracted and exploited this heavenly given precious gift in the form of a woman?. That woman upon whose shoulders your first tears were shed. The one who was and has been spearheading your earthly bound sojourn. How could you get this far; if you were never born by this wonderful woman?.

The first man was never born, rather he was made, created out of the earth out of the seen (dust) and unseen (Spirit) the seen you and I now trampled upon. And that made him available in the physical for you. Also through him, our spiritual being was cautioned and reduced to embraced grace from the Almighty maker.

That was when the woman (your mother) was sent. In the form of the first woman (Eve) She instituted to proceed and excel where the creator had foreseen that the man would fail as standing alone will never make him defeat the serpent. The first woman tarried so long in the bosom of the maker, not the man. And this had enlivened her to know more and seen more. She was fully aware of the agony and pains of death even before the first man ever tasted it. Just like Rachael never made it through during the birth of Benjamin, (Genesis 35:16 - 18) all women, your mother inclusive are actually transcending between death and life during childbirth. And this is one of the most cogent reason(s) she is your first Heaven and Resuscitation. She is that whose pains were increased during childbearing (Genesis 3:16). Despite that, she has never shy away from having you.

And your angelic mother never minds all it takes or what she would be going through, she took one of the most giant leaps of faith to have you. She is your first Heaven and your Resuscitation.

Without her mistakes (as some of us once opined) you wouldn’t have been here. So do no longer see it as a mistake. Even if she had you at her early age while she was supposed to be in school?. That woman (your mother) is too great a height for you to look down upon. But for the sake of that golden motherly love. She lowers herself, all her glory, self-worth, spiritual, physical and mentally just to cater to you. Even God the creator doesn't joke with motherhood. As that up to date still remained the credence credible source through and by which His words that humans should multiply and subdue the earth were fulfilled. 

Genesis 1:28 (KJV)

And God blessed them, 

and God said unto them, 

Be fruitful, and multiply, 

and replenish the earth, 

and subdue it: and have 

dominion over the fish 

of the sea, and over the 

fowl of the air, 

and over every 

living thing that 

moveth upon 

the earth.

In a bid to fulfil this, Some of them (Mothers) were even jeered at, rejected and relegated by their supposed to be spouse, family and relatives. Some do not have normal or properly behaved in-laws to caters for their nursing needs and usurpations. Why the word ‘usurpations’? Because that woman upon whose pains and agony your resuscitation was deposited is never by any justified or unjustified reason(s) an object of ridicules. She has not taken away what was yours rather she has given all that belonged to her. She is your first heaven. So, therefore; it is illegal for you to maltreat her. She has invested her life, careers and everything in raising you. Even when you think she is too poor to achieve that.

Nothing on earth is too expensive than been born neither is there any too poor than be dead, but the joy and promises of resurrection by our Lord Jesus Christ have endeared us to an everlasting wealth" God gave you life not through you but through your MOTHER.

Jabez thought he could bypass this, but what a greater mistake of his life?. Which he later lived to regret. Because mother has great influence upon the lives of their children. Just like Hannah who chose the gender and destiny of Samuel before he was born. 1 Samuel 1:11(NIV) And she made a vow, saying, “Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life, and no razor will ever be used on his head.”So did Jabez creator directed him to embrace, nurture and appreciate his mother so that his first Heaven; an access to all that leads to the fulfilment of good life i.e his Eden, the source of every human could be open.

Your mother is the best angel

 I have ever known about you

How long do you need to be taught before you know that that woman, your Mother is never an object of ridicule?. Mothers are angels specifically chosen by the creator to be and remain and as well retained the physical resemblance of God for the human race to multiply and subdued the earth. The first and the best angel I have ever known or seen or heard about on any and every human is MOTHER. The more you care for your mother the more and the better you bless your future and your heaven. Because humans coming to the earth passes through Mother, lives on the earth by mother and transcend back to the mother earth through mother. This is deep, but that is nothing else but the gospel truth. 

If you have ever believed in any forms or method of worship. Remember; your mother is the first temple upon which you have ever firstly worship. I didn't know mothers were this important until the Lord opened my eyes and led me along that path whereupon the sanctuary and sanctity of that woman; your mother remained sacred. How do you feel when accusations are coming in circuitous formations targetted at you on how neglected and unkept your mother is?. Remember, she is your first Heaven and Resuscitations. She is never meant to be abandoned. 

A man who has never been born

cannot die. The facts that you are living simply

shows that you were born by a Woman (Mother) 

I Chronicles 4:9-10

was more honourable than his brethren:

 and his mother called his name Jabez, saying, 

Because I bare him with sorrow.

Immediately his (Jabez) Mother named him sorrow his first Heaven were restrained to yield anything sweet except bitterness. God was fully aware of Motherhood and He is not taken it censoriously with anybody. 

¹⁰ And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, 

Oh that thou wouldest bless me indeed, and 

enlarge my coast, and that thine hand

 might be with me, and that thou 

wouldest keep me from evil, 

that it may not grieve me! 

And God granted him that

 which he requested.

Our Lord Jesus Christ laid a very good example of how a mother should be treated in any and every instance(s) but we  shall be considering this chapter; 

John 19:25-27(KJV)

25 Now there stood by the cross of Jesus his mother, 

and his mother's sister, Mary the wife of Cleophas, 

and Mary Magdalene.

26 When Jesus therefore saw his mother,

 and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, 

he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son!

27 Then saith he to the disciple, Behold thy mother! 

And from that hour that disciple took her unto his own home.

HE never disrespected his mother by saying 

'Woman, behold thy son! He still regarded her as his earthly mother and bid that disciple whom he loved so much to take good care of his mother. While He continued and fulfilled the work His heavenly Father sent Him to do. As a ransom paid to save our souls.

Luke 2:34-35 New King James Version (NKJV)

34 Then Simeon blessed them, and said to Mary His mother, 

“Behold, this Child is destined for the fall and rising

 of many in Israel, and for a sign which will be 

spoken against 

35 (yes, a sword will pierce through your own soul also), 

that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”

But how long do you intend to continue piercing her (your mother) soul with a sword (your attitudes towards her ) if you would not be yielded to the voice of wisdom to accept and take good care of your mother?. The quotations up there suggest what the Holy Virgin Mary will go through, as the sacrifice of a son given to her. Because Adam's heart was heavy to released Isaac as a sacrifice, then God provided. (Genesis 22). God has provided you for your mother and your mother for you, so please do take care of her.

Whether Adam carried his wife along or not; God has already determined not to emburden mothers to deprivations. God is quick to listen to her voice on anything that has to do with you.  A mother's tears do not go unheard before the creator. Do not grieve your mother at heart. She has done everything to care or given birth to you within her little God's given best. Please do take good care of one of the best, the Most High has blessed you with. God be with you as you do this in Jesus mighty name.

Dear brethren in Christ much and huge credences are deposited upon mothers. No gospel is ever pleated or preached and completed without that who taught, embrace, talks and nurtures mothers. When I started blogging and I wrote and posted these credences of life that have to do with how, when, where and why a mother should be taken care of, mostly in their old age.  The Lord keep ministering to me to talk about it the more. How could one abandoned his parents and looked unto God for salvation?. Yes. With God all things are possible, but there are lots of huge exception to this when it comes to the situation of that child who abandoned his/her (Parents) Mother. Roman 6:1

Even if you were given up for adoption. It is never enough reason for you to abandon her when she is old and weak. No one has ever been able to adopt emptiness, you were brought to be known and seen by this graceful beloved woman. Then the case of adoption is secondary. There are lots of humans who never made it, just like the lucky YOU.

You are not better than them by been fortunate to be born by this wonderful woman. The first woman upon your life. While you are here contending and pretending on the reason why you should not take good care of this woman. Some never made it down here at all. They were snapped by predators of abortion, miscarriages, fears, premature death, some women even sold off their eggs. But you are here. Praise the good Lord!. But how do you care for that wonderful woman, whose pains and strength scaled through the rigour and peril of childbearing?. She is your first Heaven and Resuscitation.

No one can ever in this whole wide world place you were she placed you. Even Nicodemus was confused about the clock, rhythm and wonder of God on your mother concerning you. (John: 3:4) She puts you in her womb for less, exactly or more than nine months. Carried you with her two blessed and wonderful hands. She put you on her laps and over her womb out which she bore you for solid nine months. She backed you for several years to protect those little wonderful feet of yours from harms and germs. If I may ask you dear brethren. What other parts of this wonderful woman's body have you not exploit?. So, therefore, what other moral or immoral justifications do you have not to take good care of her mostly when she is too old and weak to fend for herself?. Your mother is your first Heaven and Resuscitations.

Your mother was young when you were young. Just imagine how psychological disturbed one would be. She couldn't do things according to her age as that would be too far from the reach of your understanding. She dances when no one was singing. She was the instrumentalist, the vocalist and the choreographer all at the same time. In a bid to give you the most soothing lullaby.

You are reading this because she tolls the path to bring you down here. The promised of the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ wouldn’t have been for you if she had never toll that path to have you. You see, She is your first Heaven and your resuscitation. That woman deserved all and more of your cares.

Your sweet Mother

The existing clay extract 

out of which your kettle

was formed

The Creator,

a clay to work with

He said NO!

But your mother

the task

He assigned. 

As He rightly said

My Spirit shall no longer 

abide with human

And therefore their

years was fixed
But women were one
of those who have up to date
elongate the life of the human race.
And that woman is your Mother
Your first Heaven and Resuscitation.   

No! man doesn’t have the womb, they were never naturally gifted with the womb or fallopian tube. An enclave of the oven (Ovum) and incubator; where all the earth (dust) that was used to make human was deposited. Men were never created with flows that are biologically programmed to respond to monthly jetlag. But all these and many more He has deposited within the first woman of your life. Your mother. Your first Heaven and Resuscitation. 

Genesis 2:7 KJV

And the Lord God formed man of the dust

 of the ground, and breathed into his 

nostrils the breath of life;  and man

 became a living soul.

She is that who tasted everything before you do. The woman who wrapped you with her first and forced shawl (her womb) That woman whose unending questions about your health, could send a competent medical personnel out of his/her profession. The one who once upon refused to eat because you wouldn't eat. That woman who defended you against those whom you wouldn't have been able to defend yourself against. 

1 Corinthians 15:46-48 KJV

46 Howbeit that was not first which is spiritual, 

but that which is natural; and afterwards 

that which is spiritual.

47 The first man is of the earth, earthy; 

the second man is the Lord from heaven.

48 As is the earthy, such are they also 

that are earthy: and as is the heavenly,

 such are they also that are heavenly.

The credence of Life about this is that no mortal who disregarded his/her mother should expect to make heaven except until repentance is instituted and forgiveness is granted. Forgiveness is surplus but repentance is scarce. Whatsoever you might have had against that woman, please let it go. Don't just go abandon your first heaven in Local Nursing Home without birthing an eye to check on her.
And here is our little secret; That woman, I mean your mother, is your gateway to real success and breakthrough. Just please do take good care of her. God bless you as you do so.

How do you know or believed in God if she has not begotten thee?. It is a cheer hypocrisy on you laying claims on loving God whom you couldn’t see yet do not love or cater for this good, great, old woman who has done so much to give you life.

Just in case you do not know. That woman is your breath of life receptor. Your first altar and heaven and resuscitation. She is the foundation upon which your world was built. No mother. No spouse. No life, No Sickness, No Healing, No Failure, No Successes etc If this wonderful woman (your mother) declined or withdrawn her roles from the movies of your life.

Honestly speaking; there would be no action, nothing motivating or interesting. Everything might just tend to be total inaction but she was courageous enough. Taking the bull by the horns. She resuscitated you and you become what you are today.

You might be thinking I’ve had all the belly, jolly, merry a mother could offer. That’s why I could sit, writing all this. Your assumption is a big Yes and No!.

A ‘yes’ because life is greater and most needed to be all and whom you ought to be in life. And that through mother the creator has granted. No! Because no matter how white the firmament appeared to be, the greyish, darker side of it can never be totally expunged. We go through some certain things in life, for learning sake. No actual harm intended.

Do you think Hannah could not take adequate and proper care of Samuel; a precious gift she had sorted for the year in, year out?. No, the Elkanah’s is one of the richest but she was wise enough to see into the future by quickly insuring the life of her first given child into the care of HE that has answered her prayers. And she paid the insurance premium daily and yearly through gifts, offering and supplications. She was wise to understand that if Peninnah and her children could be so unkind, unfriendly to her during her stage and years of barrenness. Then what would they not do to her child in order to send her back to barren land?.

Some of what we go through in life are subtle means of protection. To experience more. To Learn More and to know Better. YOUR MOTHER IS NOT IN ANYWAY YOUR ENEMY. SHE IS YOUR FIRST HEAVEN AND YOUR RESUSCITATOR. Love Her, Cherish Her, Eulogize Her. As you can only have one all your life. Even when we deceived ourselves under the guise and law to 'disown' does that really erased the facts that she is our (your) mother?. 

1 Samuel 1:6-7 (NIRV)

6 Peninnah teased Hannah to make her angry. She did it because the LORD had kept Hannah from having children. 7 Peninnah teased Hannah year after year. Every time Hannah would go up to the house of the Lord, Elkanah's other wife would tease her. She would keep doing it until Hannah cried and wouldn't eat.

1 Samuel 1:20-28 (NIV)

20 So in the course of time Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel,[a] saying, “Because I asked the Lord for him.”

 Hannah Dedicates Samuel

21 When her husband Elkanah went up with all his family to offer the annual sacrifice to the Lord and to fulfill his vow, 22 Hannah did not go. She said to her husband, “After the boy is weaned, I will take him and present him before the Lord, and he will live there always.”[b]

 23 “Do what seems best to you,” her husband Elkanah told her. “Stay here until you have weaned him; only may the Lord make good his[c] word.” So the woman stayed at home and nursed her son until she had weaned him. 24 After he was weaned, she took the boy with her, young as he was, along with a three-year-old bull,[d] an ephah[e] of flour and a skin of wine, and brought him to the house of the Lord at Shiloh. 25 When the bull had been sacrificed, they brought the boy to Eli, 26 and she said to him, “Pardon me, my lord. As surely as you live, I am the woman who stood here beside you praying to the Lord. 27 I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him. 28 So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord.” And he worshiped the Lord there.

Let’s digress a little into the life of the man called Folorunsho Alayo. At early age fit enough to be enrolled in the elementary class. My grandfather took me to see my 'aunt' which was then unknown to me as my biological mother. Please, my grandfather pleaded with her to give little financial assistance so that I could be enrolled in School. As childish as I was, immediately I saw her, I rushed at her to embrace her but she shoved me aside. And faced my grandfather to warn him not to ever come near her. That she has nothing to do with me. And she said this to me ‘if not for the unlucky me, she wouldn’t have had anything to do with that wicked man’. So my grandfather should go ahead and do whatever he likes with me or better still he could just end the mystery by dumping me into the nearest river on his way homeward". That was too cruel, you might want to say but I have this to say; "GOD BLESS MY MOTHER." 

Remember; the temple upon which any and every human has ever firstly worshipped is WOMAN. AND THAT IS YOUR SWEET MOTHER

Jeremiah 1:5 (KJV)

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; 

and before thou camest forth out of the womb

 I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.

God knew our mothers before we were given to them. Before God decided she will be the one through which He was surely going to give me life. God knew her, chose her for the purpose. Just the way HE chose your mother to give you life or else It could have been Her Royal Majesty Queen Elizabeth II. But God said 'No.' The woman that will be most important to give each and every one of us life is that exactitudes God in His Almightiness have given to us.

1 Samuel 16:7

King James Bible

But the LORD said unto Samuel, 

Look not on his countenance, or on the height
 of his stature; because I have refused him: 

for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; 

for man looketh on the outward 

appearance, but the

 LORD looketh 
on the heart.

I understand that some of our mothers could be childish or immature in their decisions as youths; but as Christians, we do not have the credence to pay evil for evil. And that in any way was never wickedness as you might be thinking. As going through lots of debilitating sides of life has enabled me to understand more about the vanity of this world. To give more to the needy and helpless, the motherless and the homeless. Because if I could presently sit in the comfort of my room reaching to the faithful across the globe. Lots of brethren are leaving right in the open, under the harsh and unfriendly weather without clothing, shelter or even foods to raise their hope of another day to come. They are all somewhere out there all around us. Please help reach out to them in the Name of the Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit, Amen!. Even that single piece of bread you're about tossing into the waste bin could go along way in saving a soul. God bless you as you reach out to the needy unsparingly.    

As I've once lived my life homeless, without food, without direction, sleeping in abandoned buildings, or on any vacant abandoned couch on the street, near the railroad, in the market among the stores. But I thank His Almightiness then, now and forever. These are perils areas that I’ve been through at a very tender age. Back then, I thought I was suffering but never knew that I was actually gathering credence(s) of life that will one day be needful and useful for both of us. I made it out of those psychological quagmires but there are many all around us. Whose life you could help touched one way or the other. Summing this up, Your mother is your heaven and your first resuscitation do not abandon her for any reason. PLEASE TAKE GOOD AND ADEQUATE CARE OF YOUR MOTHER IN HER OLD AGE. DON'T ABANDON HER. SHE IS NEVER AN HEIRLOOM TO BE BANDON. GOD BLESS YOU AS YOU DO THESE (AMEN)  

YOU KNOW WHAT; 

WHOEVER ABANDON HIS/HER 

MOTHER FOR WHATEVER 

REASON(S) CURSED THE 

DAY HE/SHE WAS 

BORN.

So before others or you wish yourself

happy birthday consider how very most

happily, you have treated the woman

God used to grant you the

'HAPPY BIRTHDAY'

 1Peter 3:8-15

8 Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, 

love one another, be compassionate and humble. 

9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. 

On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, 

because to this you were called so 

that you may inherit a blessing. 

10 For, “Whoever would love life

 and see good days

must keep their tongue from evil

 and their lips from deceitful speech.

11 They must turn from evil and do good;

    they must seek peace and pursue it.

12 For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous

    and his ears are attentive to their prayer,

but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”[a]

13 Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? 

14 But even if you should suffer for what is right, 

you are blessed. “Do not fear their threats

[b]; do not be frightened.”

[c] 15 But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. 

Always be prepared to give an answer 

to everyone who asks you to give the reason 

for the hope that you have. But 

do this with gentleness and respect,

Despite all I’ve gone through, I  do not hold anything against her or anyone anywhere, as I still traced my steps back to locating her and I’m taking good care of her within every available resource of my strength and ability. All the fanfare that probably made her abandoned and disowned me back then were no longer there. But it's my duty to restore back, the good Lord made me through her and she is my first Heaven and Resuscitation. And this I expect you to do also to that wonderful woman. Your Mother. She is your first heaven and Resuscitation.

If you would not take care of your mother while she is still alive. How would you feel; when others around you and all over the world are celebrating their precious mothers?. What would you do when she eventually goes home to be with her maker?. What kind of biography or epitaph do you want to write on her funeral program or inscribed on her tomb?. And will you be bold enough to attend such a funeral or service of song in respect of this wonderful doyen?. When you gaze at the neatly designed program poster or invitation, how do you feel?. A million wreath neatly or roughly placed on her tomb or casket is no longer useful. Instead, while she is still alive, give her good food, housing, good health care and ensured you do not get too far away from her. She has wrapped you in her womb; and around her heart. No amount of good, quality clothes is too expensive to buy for this wonderful mother. Who has given more than you could ever reciprocate?

Your mother is the best grace you have ever gotten; how do you get to be proud of whatever, if that precious woman did not decides you are worthy of a life and reason to live?. There would definitely not be any class or religion. Let me give you this little secret. Whatsoever religion you profess, your mother is the first to enrol you. She was the first to take you there. How did you profess to know Christ in the flesh, if your good, Godly, wonderful mother did not give birth to you?. Even our Lord Jesus Christ was born of the Holy Virgin Mary, not Holy virgin Joseph. (No insults to Fathers, thank sirs) Praise the Lord. 

Another credence of life about this is that She won't be here forever. She is got to meet her maker one day and if she goes up there without you taking care of her while she is down here. Off course, you'll occasionally bump into people who knew all about how well or bad you've treated your mother; your first heaven; the envelope and receptor of your ban from the garden of Eden. Some of them might be bold enough to reprimand you while some will just look at you and moved on.  Then you will remember HOW?, WHEN?, WHY? AND WHERE? you abandoned her. All you see at the moment is her picture and then your right or wrong judgement about her. While the motherly rest on in the bosom of her Lord and Saviour. By then the deed had been done and the opportunity to right the wrong might just not be there anymore. Offcourse. You would love to, but it just might be too late. Remember!. The kobo (dime; probably that is all you could presently muster to spend on her, go ahead. Even from the little you could give.) you spent on her while she is still living is bigger, better and valuable than the millions spent on her burial ceremony. If you don't act NOW.  It might just be too late.

Mark 12:43-44 New Living Translation (NLT) 

43 Jesus called his disciples to him and said, 

“I tell you the truth, this poor widow has given more

 than all the others who are making contributions. 

44 For they gave a tiny part of their surplus, 

but she, poor as she is, 

has given everything she had to live on.”

Your Mother is your right
and your right is on and for 
your Mother to care and
PROTECT.

And I seized these golden opportunities to pray with those whose mother has gone to be with our Lord Jesus Christ. May the joy and expectations of Resurrection be for us all In Jesus mighty name. (Amen)

Thank you so much for all the positive feedback I've received all around the globe on turning new leaves toward taking good and adequate cares of our Mothers, Our first Heaven and Resuscitation. When next you mail or chat on WhatsApp with me, I definitely want to know and hear more about how wonderfully you've taken care of your Mother. 

As you can only have one all your life, So treat her very well as if, you are the only treasure(s)  She has ever gotten. God bless you as you do this. (Amen)

HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY

TO ALL OUR GOLDEN, 

FOREVER LIVING 

LEGEND 
MOTHERS.

I am definitely still going to talk, explain and, expatiate on the farmer (father) who chose and tills the ground and monitor to guide against any and every impending or intruding pest and predators but the soil, ground and seed (You) need first to be discussed and that is your Sweet Mother; 
Your first Heaven and Resuscitations. 

And in taking good and adequate care of your mother, do not forget that good and wonderfully made man who chose your good mother for you. That is your father. The sixth day work of the Creator.

Rejoice in the Lord always; 

and again I say, 

Rejoice. Philippians 4:4 

You can please send your prayer request or any 

questions to the contacts below; 

folorunshoalayo@yahoo.com. Tel: +234 8033646382, 

+234 8023956872 (WhatsApp) 

You can also please support this ministry to rent the landed property as a

worship centre with any amount that is most convenient for you. 

Bank acct: Alayo Lateef Folorunsho 3013041255 (First Bank Nigeria Plc)

And we pray and thank God Almighty and Our Lord Jesus Christ to bless

those whose financial assistance has been received and every believer all over

the world.  May the peace and grace of our LORD JESUS CHRIST 

continue to be with us all Amen. 

Remember JESUS CHRIST 
was never sent to condemn 
but to save You.
John 3:17

Folorunsho Alayo

The incomplete SPOUSE

The man Adam was created; not as a hermaphrodite but as a spouse to a human-like woman whose presence he is yet to physically ascertained. (Genesis 2:28)  The man and the woman were created on the same day but were never presented to one another on this same day. (Genesis 1:27)While the source out of which the man was created was crude, primitive and primary  that out of which the woman was created was polished,  refined and secondary.

Genesis 1:27
So God created man in his own image,
 in the image of God created he him;
 male and female created he them.

Genesis 1:26

Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, 

according to Our likeness; let them have dominion

 over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air,

 and over the cattle, over all [a] the earth and over 

every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”

Genesis 2:18

And the LORD God said, 

It is not good that the man should be alone;

 I will make him an help meet for him.

Adam the first man was never created as an incomplete spouse but as a complete perfect being. But he needs to get used to his earthly working environment, so therefore. He couldn’t physically cope for long within the mystical sphere whereupon he was deposited. He was created to embrace the physical and must for reason to guide and nurture those things (beings) that were physically brought to exist within the purview of that which could be physically entailed and spiritually understands.

Hence the needs for him to shed some of his spiritually given embodiment is necessary. Adam realized this incompleteness when he observed that every creature in the garden were in pairs; i.e a  male and female. Before then, the man Adam was an incomplete spouse. Immediately he realized this; he refused to continue living in such an incomplete stage. Through his loneliness he questioned his creator as why should there be a Bull and a Cow, Cock to Hen, A Jack to Jenny or Jennet (Male and female donkey)?. But here was only a man Adam, a male without a female.

 1 John 4:4 (KJV)

Ye are of God, little children,

 and have overcome them: 

because greater is he that is in you, 

than he that is in the world.

Have you ever wondered why the fingers that bore the marital rings is the only finger that has vein that is directly connected to your heart?. Once you are connected in Holy Matrimony Solemnization, the word 'divorce' do no longer exist. That is why a spouse is never expected to be betrothed until he or she is fully aware and understands what is happening. Documented facts and oratorical facts and physical witnesses are also deployed. But in case(s) of Birth and Death, your consent might just be exempted as you could or do not necessarily take charge(s) of whatever happens then. Even if there are written documents duly signed as entailing how ones would want to be buried this is still not as cognizance as wedding.

Birth, Marriage and Death. The most important which has been fully authenticated by God, The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit is Wedding. But before we unraveled this marital mysteries further just bear in mind that;

Mark 4:11 (KJV)

And he said unto them, 

Unto you it is given to know the mystery

 of the kingdom of God: but unto them that 

are without, all these things are done in parables:

How do you know when a spouse  is full or half?.
Though how would one find a perfectly knotted spouse?, as your spouse should and are expected to be human. But that whose ways of life and attitudes are suitable enough to permit your incompletely perceived perfection could be deemed or termed as full or complete spouse. As in, the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. Sometimes one might think the other is an incomplete spouse without knowing is (He or She) that is, who is absolutely intolerable. There's no perfect or full spouse out there. But that whose half submission completed your half 'might' just be that who is wholesomely perfect and complete enough to be that incomplete spouse 'meant' for you.

Appearance is deceptive, but God has given everyone of us the idea and spiritual inkling to spot and know our incompleteness. But those character that precedes the arrival of such might have blurred our instinctual notifier i.e our spiritual quicken. Such character includes; Laziness, Jealousy, Anger, Backbiting, malice, envy, arrogance, distraction and the like of them. Its so difficult to know or foreseen the bone of your bones and flesh of your flesh when such is around if you still had any of such aforementioned attitudes living in you.

John 6:63(KJV)

It is the spirit that quickeneth;  
the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that 
I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.

God didn't only performed surgical-spiritual operation on Adam. His Spiritual content was also reduced. As it is obvious that he could no longer continued in the nature whereupon he was created. Because He was distracted and carried away, by things around Him. Hence the man Adam won't be able to continue living as god. His years had to be measurable instead of been immeasurable. He had to be reduced from immortal to mortal. But blessed be the name of our God the MOST HIGH who has not abandoned us to the whims and wills of the wicked ones. The fallen angels. He so loved the world by giving us HIS only begotten Son.

John 3:16

For God so loved the world, 

that he gave his only begotten Son, 

that whosoever believeth in him 

should not perish, but have 

everlasting life

*An incomplete spouse loves merely for the present.
A complete spouse loves you for better for worse

* Do not be fool brethren; an incomplete spouse can promise heaven and earth.
 A complete spouse is genuine in all their dealings with you.

* An incomplete spouse do not see why is the first to apologize 
 A complete spouse is ready and willing to apologize when is at fault even when is not

* An incomplete spouse do not mostly see things from your view
 A complete spouse sees things or even more and beyond you then reverses or ups such to your     standard.

* An incomplete spouse pretends when all is good
A complete spouse stays around for better, for worse as long till death do us apart.

* An incomplete spouse complains about your aged ones and family background might just not     want to see them
A complete spouse is another member of the family just returning home 
etc

There are certain pedigree of relativity among humans across the globe. But that who is closed and dear enough to be bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. i.e, that which was and directly created (given) to be yours is certainly there to be yours then, now and forever. But if you missed that which belongs to you and you've already gotten hooked to one or dating one presently. Dear brethren, you might just be living with an in complete spouse. (But if you are already hooked to one that is totally unthinkable do not worry CHRIST has redeemed all)

Adam was living among animals. Before that which was truly his was finally presented and given. Some humans are still at that stage today. They are still living within their animal's natures cocoon.

 If you do not listen to your guarding angels 

as directed by your creator, That 

MARITAL STEPS

you are about taking or which you

 might have taken could just be 

another disguise of getting maritally 

hooked to another wolf in sheep clothing. And this might tends to be an effort in futility

Just in case you are already in do not worry or panic, CHRIST is able to calm the storm.

When Our Lord Jesus Christ said you should beware of false prophet 

Matthew 7:15 (KJV)

¹⁵ Beware of false prophets, 

which come to you in 

sheep's clothing, but 

inwardly they are 

ravening wolves.

This reference by our Lord Jesus Christ, was never taught alone on false prophets even if  'targetedly' projected on false prophets. Don't you understand brethren that we are prophets to this unsaved world and, to the future of our children?. Spouse(s) are in one way or the other prophets. So you beware of the false ones. They are not meant for you. You are not path to falsehood. Why should you allowed any of such to disturb your happily forever blissfulness?. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured. But just in case you found yourself enduring one at the moment, do not despair, Christ is right there with you and He shall stop the marital storms. 

Everyone going into matrimony is expected to be Parents  and a prophet. (not to their children alone but to every of the likes around) Parents are meant to biologically, psychologically, environmentally, economically, spiritually and in many every other ways necessarily guides their Children. And if you do not listen attentively and carefully before you make a choice of that half that made your marital completeness, one might just be mistaken a wolf for a sheep. Because no human can fully predict the inbuilt attitudes of others. You might be young and inexperience, when taking such a decision. But do not forget that; 

"Appearance could be 
more deceptive, So do not
 trust a cutlass with your neck"
  

A spouses who do not trust one another might

 just be a stage set for an incomplete spouse.

A true spouse doesn't kill each other.

Samson was never killed by Delilah, but Samson killed himself through some of those attitudes that should have been dropped before going to be enjoined by the other half in order to make a complete marital metamorphosis. This was never in a bid to justified Delilah role; because she was never in the first instance a supposed better half for him. Samson was warned by his Parents (Prophets) and his creator. But he never listened (Judges 14:3) 

Judges 14 

And Samson went down to Timnath, 
and saw a woman in Timnath of 
the daughters of the Philistines.

² And he came up, and told his father and 
his mother, and said, I have seen 
a woman in Timnath of the daughters
 of the Philistines: now therefore 
get her for me to wife.

³ Then his father and his mother said 
unto him, Is there never a woman
 among the daughters of thy brethren, or
 among all my people, that thou goest to 
take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines?
 And Samson said unto his father, 
Get her for me; for she
 pleaseth me well.

^{THE BIBLE STATED IN VERSE 4} 
But his father and his mother
 knew not that it was of the Lord, that he 
sought an occasion against the Philistines: 
for at that time the Philistines had
 dominion over Israel.

The Lord has other far better alternatives which could be used rather than plunging his chosen ones into untimely death. But this succinctly explained Samson's human faults, his weakness, his unyielding to parental/prophetic guides and comport. Samson couldn't had been given to such an option of been subjugated by a supposedly better half that ought to made him a complete better whole of an incomplete half. But, because he was mighty and stubborn, with disregard to parental advise. God has given us all humans the 'sonship' power to command him;

 Isaiah 45:11 (KJV)

Thus saith the LORD, the Holy One of Israel, 

and his Maker, Ask me of things to come concerning my sons,

 and concerning the work of my hands command ye me.

Samson was never ignorant of these promises, as he has hitherto launched into the same promises when he was confronted with thirst after he has defeated the philistines. 

Judges 15:18

And he was sore athirst, 
and called on the LORD, 

and said, Thou hast given this great
 deliverance into the hand of thy servant: 

and now shall I die for thirst, and fall into the 
hand of the uncircumcised?.

(and also Judges: 16:30)

    2nd Kings (please read from 1 -11) 

20 In those days Hezekiah was sick and near death.

And Isaiah the prophet, the son of Amoz, 

went to him and said to him, 

“Thus says the Lord: ‘Set your house in order,

 for you shall die, and not live.’”

² Then he turned his face toward the wall, 
and prayed to the Lord, saying, ³ 
“Remember now, O Lord, I pray, how I 
have walked before You in truth and with a 
loyal heart, and have done what was good in 
Your sight.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.

Unlike the better completeness (Manoah and his wife) that produced him were well matched for each other. Though they were barren they never attempted trying another half elsewhere. Here is an example of the nuptial bliss; for better for worse, till death do us apart. 

Judges 13:3

 And the angel of the LORD appeared unto 

the woman, and said unto her, Behold now,

 thou art barren, and bearest not: 

but thou shalt conceive,

 and bear a son

Judges 16:1-end

20 And she said, The Philistines be upon thee,
 Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep,
 and said, I will go out as at other times before,

 and shake myself. And he wist not that the Lord 

was departed from him.

21 But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes,

and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him 

with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the 

prison house.   

Dear brethren in the Lord Jesus, In a marital relationship non of the spouse should, or has a fixative rules or principles that should or could not be bend or thwart for the sake of the other. For that which is pleasing to one must be to the other. Thy face is fine to behold that is why the veil was lifted and the hymen broken. For that who is getting hooked in Holy matrimony as a secondary virgin do not need to be veiled. As directed by Christ our Chief Bridegroom. As this symbolizes our Re-union in the Family of God.

Holy matrimony is; and should be on and about family of God. It should never be presented or meted as a guise or guide to prison yards or army barracks whereby there's strict limitation to freedom of life and expression. A complete spouse is and should never be too bossy, should be able to curb any and every mentally transfer aggression. Don't kick the pet out of your way as an expression to show your anger. This is absolutely wrong as pets are also member of the family. Or throw things at the little ones all because they couldn't carry out an order as prompt as you desired. If you kicked the pet today, throw things at the kids today, tomorrow, it will be turn of your spouse. A complete spouse shouldn't looked down on one another as inconsequential. When there's kudos in the relationship its the gains to every members and when there's regret its equally for and, on every member.

At this juncture dear brethren, i must plead with you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Not to be bore by this lengthy epistle because.

"In exception to Salvation, 

there's certainly no any other 

gospel that is greater 

than marriage"

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12(KJV)

9 Two are better than one; because they have 

a good reward for their labour.

10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: 

but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; 

for he hath not another to help him up.

11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: 

but how can one be warm alone?

12 And if one prevail against him, 

two shall withstand him; and a threefold 

cord is not quickly broken.

..temporarily dropped my pen on this.
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and again I say, 

Rejoice. Philippians 4:4 

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John 3:17

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