The incomplete SPOUSE

The man Adam was created; not as a hermaphrodite but as a spouse to a human-like woman whose presence he is yet to physically ascertained. (Genesis 2:28)  The man and the woman were created on the same day but were never presented to one another on this same day. (Genesis 1:27)While the source out of which the man was created was crude, primitive and primary  that out of which the woman was created was polished,  refined and secondary.

Genesis 1:27
So God created man in his own image,
 in the image of God created he him;
 male and female created he them.

Genesis 1:26

Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, 

according to Our likeness; let them have dominion

 over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air,

 and over the cattle, over all [a] the earth and over 

every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”

Genesis 2:18

And the LORD God said, 

It is not good that the man should be alone;

 I will make him an help meet for him.

Adam the first man was never created as an incomplete spouse but as a complete perfect being. But he needs to get used to his earthly working environment, so therefore. He couldn’t physically cope for long within the mystical sphere whereupon he was deposited. He was created to embrace the physical and must for reason to guide and nurture those things (beings) that were physically brought to exist within the purview of that which could be physically entailed and spiritually understands.

Hence the needs for him to shed some of his spiritually given embodiment is necessary. Adam realized this incompleteness when he observed that every creature in the garden were in pairs; i.e a  male and female. Before then, the man Adam was an incomplete spouse. Immediately he realized this; he refused to continue living in such an incomplete stage. Through his loneliness he questioned his creator as why should there be a Bull and a Cow, Cock to Hen, A Jack to Jenny or Jennet (Male and female donkey)?. But here was only a man Adam, a male without a female.

 1 John 4:4 (KJV)

Ye are of God, little children,

 and have overcome them: 

because greater is he that is in you, 

than he that is in the world.

Have you ever wondered why the fingers that bore the marital rings is the only finger that has vein that is directly connected to your heart?. Once you are connected in Holy Matrimony Solemnization, the word 'divorce' do no longer exist. That is why a spouse is never expected to be betrothed until he or she is fully aware and understands what is happening. Documented facts and oratorical facts and physical witnesses are also deployed. But in case(s) of Birth and Death, your consent might just be exempted as you could or do not necessarily take charge(s) of whatever happens then. Even if there are written documents duly signed as entailing how ones would want to be buried this is still not as cognizance as wedding.

Birth, Marriage and Death. The most important which has been fully authenticated by God, The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit is Wedding. But before we unraveled this marital mysteries further just bear in mind that;

Mark 4:11 (KJV)

And he said unto them, 

Unto you it is given to know the mystery

 of the kingdom of God: but unto them that 

are without, all these things are done in parables:

How do you know when a spouse  is full or half?.
Though how would one find a perfectly knotted spouse?, as your spouse should and are expected to be human. But that whose ways of life and attitudes are suitable enough to permit your incompletely perceived perfection could be deemed or termed as full or complete spouse. As in, the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. Sometimes one might think the other is an incomplete spouse without knowing is (He or She) that is, who is absolutely intolerable. There's no perfect or full spouse out there. But that whose half submission completed your half 'might' just be that who is wholesomely perfect and complete enough to be that incomplete spouse 'meant' for you.

Appearance is deceptive, but God has given everyone of us the idea and spiritual inkling to spot and know our incompleteness. But those character that precedes the arrival of such might have blurred our instinctual notifier i.e our spiritual quicken. Such character includes; Laziness, Jealousy, Anger, Backbiting, malice, envy, arrogance, distraction and the like of them. Its so difficult to know or foreseen the bone of your bones and flesh of your flesh when such is around if you still had any of such aforementioned attitudes living in you.

John 6:63(KJV)

It is the spirit that quickeneth;  
the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that 
I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.

God didn't only performed surgical-spiritual operation on Adam. His Spiritual content was also reduced. As it is obvious that he could no longer continued in the nature whereupon he was created. Because He was distracted and carried away, by things around Him. Hence the man Adam won't be able to continue living as god. His years had to be measurable instead of been immeasurable. He had to be reduced from immortal to mortal. But blessed be the name of our God the MOST HIGH who has not abandoned us to the whims and wills of the wicked ones. The fallen angels. He so loved the world by giving us HIS only begotten Son.

John 3:16

For God so loved the world, 

that he gave his only begotten Son, 

that whosoever believeth in him 

should not perish, but have 

everlasting life

*An incomplete spouse loves merely for the present.
A complete spouse loves you for better for worse

* Do not be fool brethren; an incomplete spouse can promise heaven and earth.
 A complete spouse is genuine in all their dealings with you.

* An incomplete spouse do not see why is the first to apologize 
 A complete spouse is ready and willing to apologize when is at fault even when is not

* An incomplete spouse do not mostly see things from your view
 A complete spouse sees things or even more and beyond you then reverses or ups such to your     standard.

* An incomplete spouse pretends when all is good
A complete spouse stays around for better, for worse as long till death do us apart.

* An incomplete spouse complains about your aged ones and family background might just not     want to see them
A complete spouse is another member of the family just returning home 
etc

There are certain pedigree of relativity among humans across the globe. But that who is closed and dear enough to be bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. i.e, that which was and directly created (given) to be yours is certainly there to be yours then, now and forever. But if you missed that which belongs to you and you've already gotten hooked to one or dating one presently. Dear brethren, you might just be living with an in complete spouse. (But if you are already hooked to one that is totally unthinkable do not worry CHRIST has redeemed all)

Adam was living among animals. Before that which was truly his was finally presented and given. Some humans are still at that stage today. They are still living within their animal's natures cocoon.

 If you do not listen to your guarding angels 

as directed by your creator, That 

MARITAL STEPS

you are about taking or which you

 might have taken could just be 

another disguise of getting maritally 

hooked to another wolf in sheep clothing. And this might tends to be an effort in futility

Just in case you are already in do not worry or panic, CHRIST is able to calm the storm.

When Our Lord Jesus Christ said you should beware of false prophet 

Matthew 7:15 (KJV)

¹⁵ Beware of false prophets, 

which come to you in 

sheep's clothing, but 

inwardly they are 

ravening wolves.

This reference by our Lord Jesus Christ, was never taught alone on false prophets even if  'targetedly' projected on false prophets. Don't you understand brethren that we are prophets to this unsaved world and, to the future of our children?. Spouse(s) are in one way or the other prophets. So you beware of the false ones. They are not meant for you. You are not path to falsehood. Why should you allowed any of such to disturb your happily forever blissfulness?. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured. But just in case you found yourself enduring one at the moment, do not despair, Christ is right there with you and He shall stop the marital storms. 

Everyone going into matrimony is expected to be Parents  and a prophet. (not to their children alone but to every of the likes around) Parents are meant to biologically, psychologically, environmentally, economically, spiritually and in many every other ways necessarily guides their Children. And if you do not listen attentively and carefully before you make a choice of that half that made your marital completeness, one might just be mistaken a wolf for a sheep. Because no human can fully predict the inbuilt attitudes of others. You might be young and inexperience, when taking such a decision. But do not forget that; 

"Appearance could be 
more deceptive, So do not
 trust a cutlass with your neck"
  

A spouses who do not trust one another might

 just be a stage set for an incomplete spouse.

A true spouse doesn't kill each other.

Samson was never killed by Delilah, but Samson killed himself through some of those attitudes that should have been dropped before going to be enjoined by the other half in order to make a complete marital metamorphosis. This was never in a bid to justified Delilah role; because she was never in the first instance a supposed better half for him. Samson was warned by his Parents (Prophets) and his creator. But he never listened (Judges 14:3) 

Judges 14 

And Samson went down to Timnath, 
and saw a woman in Timnath of 
the daughters of the Philistines.

² And he came up, and told his father and 
his mother, and said, I have seen 
a woman in Timnath of the daughters
 of the Philistines: now therefore 
get her for me to wife.

³ Then his father and his mother said 
unto him, Is there never a woman
 among the daughters of thy brethren, or
 among all my people, that thou goest to 
take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines?
 And Samson said unto his father, 
Get her for me; for she
 pleaseth me well.

^{THE BIBLE STATED IN VERSE 4} 
But his father and his mother
 knew not that it was of the Lord, that he 
sought an occasion against the Philistines: 
for at that time the Philistines had
 dominion over Israel.

The Lord has other far better alternatives which could be used rather than plunging his chosen ones into untimely death. But this succinctly explained Samson's human faults, his weakness, his unyielding to parental/prophetic guides and comport. Samson couldn't had been given to such an option of been subjugated by a supposedly better half that ought to made him a complete better whole of an incomplete half. But, because he was mighty and stubborn, with disregard to parental advise. God has given us all humans the 'sonship' power to command him;

 Isaiah 45:11 (KJV)

Thus saith the LORD, the Holy One of Israel, 

and his Maker, Ask me of things to come concerning my sons,

 and concerning the work of my hands command ye me.

Samson was never ignorant of these promises, as he has hitherto launched into the same promises when he was confronted with thirst after he has defeated the philistines. 

Judges 15:18

And he was sore athirst, 
and called on the LORD, 

and said, Thou hast given this great
 deliverance into the hand of thy servant: 

and now shall I die for thirst, and fall into the 
hand of the uncircumcised?.

(and also Judges: 16:30)

    2nd Kings (please read from 1 -11) 

20 In those days Hezekiah was sick and near death.

And Isaiah the prophet, the son of Amoz, 

went to him and said to him, 

“Thus says the Lord: ‘Set your house in order,

 for you shall die, and not live.’”

² Then he turned his face toward the wall, 
and prayed to the Lord, saying, ³ 
“Remember now, O Lord, I pray, how I 
have walked before You in truth and with a 
loyal heart, and have done what was good in 
Your sight.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.

Unlike the better completeness (Manoah and his wife) that produced him were well matched for each other. Though they were barren they never attempted trying another half elsewhere. Here is an example of the nuptial bliss; for better for worse, till death do us apart. 

Judges 13:3

 And the angel of the LORD appeared unto 

the woman, and said unto her, Behold now,

 thou art barren, and bearest not: 

but thou shalt conceive,

 and bear a son

Judges 16:1-end

20 And she said, The Philistines be upon thee,
 Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep,
 and said, I will go out as at other times before,

 and shake myself. And he wist not that the Lord 

was departed from him.

21 But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes,

and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him 

with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the 

prison house.   

Dear brethren in the Lord Jesus, In a marital relationship non of the spouse should, or has a fixative rules or principles that should or could not be bend or thwart for the sake of the other. For that which is pleasing to one must be to the other. Thy face is fine to behold that is why the veil was lifted and the hymen broken. For that who is getting hooked in Holy matrimony as a secondary virgin do not need to be veiled. As directed by Christ our Chief Bridegroom. As this symbolizes our Re-union in the Family of God.

Holy matrimony is; and should be on and about family of God. It should never be presented or meted as a guise or guide to prison yards or army barracks whereby there's strict limitation to freedom of life and expression. A complete spouse is and should never be too bossy, should be able to curb any and every mentally transfer aggression. Don't kick the pet out of your way as an expression to show your anger. This is absolutely wrong as pets are also member of the family. Or throw things at the little ones all because they couldn't carry out an order as prompt as you desired. If you kicked the pet today, throw things at the kids today, tomorrow, it will be turn of your spouse. A complete spouse shouldn't looked down on one another as inconsequential. When there's kudos in the relationship its the gains to every members and when there's regret its equally for and, on every member.

At this juncture dear brethren, i must plead with you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Not to be bore by this lengthy epistle because.

"In exception to Salvation, 

there's certainly no any other 

gospel that is greater 

than marriage"

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12(KJV)

9 Two are better than one; because they have 

a good reward for their labour.

10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: 

but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; 

for he hath not another to help him up.

11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: 

but how can one be warm alone?

12 And if one prevail against him, 

two shall withstand him; and a threefold 

cord is not quickly broken.

..temporarily dropped my pen on this.
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and again I say, 

Rejoice. Philippians 4:4 

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John 3:17

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